Post Vasectomy question?

You told her what you were going to do, she told you not to do it, and you did it anyway. You put yourself before her. She feels like you don't love or respect her. No, although she may slowly move on from this, she will never look at you the same way. To you, this was more important (not having any more kids) than her being mad at you. Seems to me, you both have to live with your choice.