I want the Darth Vader song to walk down the ailse to...?

But my fiance won't let me. He says because it's in a church this type of thing would be very disrespectful. I would pull the, "It's MY big day" card and go on about how it's every little girls dream to have a wedding as she imagined it. Except that I think weddings are crap and while I can compromise with my partner and our families and have a traditional wedding, I cannot compromise myself and do that. What can I do? I really want that song! Maybe as a first dance? What do you think?